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What you can’t help doing
“What is it that you can't help doing?” It's the question that opened up new worlds for me. Maybe it does for you, too.
Unpacking the past vs. planning a meaningful future
The past can be a useful guide for planning a meaningful future. The trick is not sitting in it.
You are not your user. Except when you are.
A few thoughts on becoming the person I needed years ago.
Knowing Where You are Not
Meaningful progress often happens in small moments. Here’s what that might look like.
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Please enjoy my entire Medium archive — all the links inside are paywall-free.
Bending time for greater productivity
I’m back on Saskia’s podcast — now called Pattern Shift — to talk about bending time. We cover what that means and how to do it, so that you can have more productive days.
Criticism is a Wish in Defenses
Our judgemental thoughts weigh us down like heavy armor. Here’s a simple way to let the defensiveness go.
Answering tough questions on the Half-Finished to Done Podcast
In this episode of the Half-Finished to Done podcast, Cristina Roman and I spend a quick 50 minutes sharing what truly works for being your most productive self — especially when you’re not feeling your best.
Unleash Your Mindset and smash those thought-gremlins!
In this episode of Unleash Your Mindset, Rizwan Javaid and I spend just over an hour sharing actionable strategies for achieving your creative potential. Stay to the end for the special listener challenge!
Yarn over thinking: Create success with coaching, mentoring and craft
Listen to business coach and mentor Saskia de Feijter and I spend 50 minutes on yarn over thinking — it will change your perspective on your craft, whatever that may be
You need a compelling reason
Without compelling reasons for doing your work, you’re making things harder on yourself. Learn about compelling reasons, why you need them, and how to achieve your goals quicker and easier.
What is revenge bedtime procrastination?
Stealing from your sleep to mindlessly relax is a warning sign that something needs to change about your schedule or the way you're showing up to it. Find out more inside.
The Art of Reframing
Through a simple reframe of an unhelpful thought, you can reduce dread, increase motivation, and feel clear about the work ahead. All it takes is a moment and a little creative thinking.
Am I still a Creative if I’m not actively creating stuff?
When we confuse who we are (the noun) with what we do (the verb), and vice versa, we make work harder for ourselves. Get out of your own way by putting your time and ego in the right place.
It’s all about feelings — even if you’re not a “feelings” person
There is something important that lives behind every feeling: a thought. Using the Thought Model, we can see the relationship between thoughts, feelings, and actions.
How to feel your achievements (and not your mistakes)
Feelings of accomplishment require three things: courage, effort, and skill. Which do you need more of?
When you’re stuck and can’t decide…
Decide from a strong position. Instead of comparing pros and cons, make a Best of Both Worlds List.
From Overthinking to Expert Thinking
When you can accept and embrace who you are right now, you can get to the work of who you want to be.
How to think new thoughts (and believe them)
The Thought Ladder outlines a tried-and-true method, but often people get stuck on a key step: how to believe a new thought.
Using a Thought Ladder to upgrade your beliefs
If you want to think more helpful, empowering thoughts and improve your self-image, use this free worksheet to shift your thinking in small, meaningful increments.