You’re Never Doing Nothing With Your Time
Everything is experience. Even when it’s nothing, there’s always something worth sharing.
What it Really Means to Feel Seen and Heard
Although the phrases “feeling seen” and “feeling heard” are very similar in sound and meaning, they contain a key difference — one that can lead us to greater insight about how we connect with others.
For Better Conversations, Ask Shorter Questions
Long questions overwhelm and confuse people. If you want your conversations to go farther, make your questions shorter.
The Problem With Coaching
The word 'coach' been around for centuries, and the practice for much longer. These days, coaching has developed a dark underbelly. Here’s how we can do more than simply expose it.
Spaghetti, Paperclip, or Reed?
Ways to respond to stress, told through three objects. Learn the difference between elasticity, plasticity, and resiliency and start becoming more reed-like.
Don’t Tell Me What To Do; Please Like Me!
If you've ever walked away from a social interaction mystified by what happened, here's a useful lens for understanding your reactions; and theirs, too.
Front Row Seat to Regret
My small confession about missed opportunities, hidden neurodivergence, and the hard road of learning to pay attention.
AI Coaches Can’t Do The One Thing You Need Most
We're all turning to AI coaches to help us think through problems. But these models fail in a few key ways, robbing you of true growth and meaningful connection.